No, The “Big Brother” Cookout Alliance Is Not Reverse Racism

MF: Oh, yes. You cannot hide this. You know, they do present edited episodes every Sunday, Wednesday, and Thursday. But true Big Brother fans like me, live feeders, we're constantly watching. I have to constantly watch because I podcast about it and we see it all. And when cameras are running 24/7, you can only hide your biases and your prejudices for so long. It'll eventually come out and then we'll see it. Other reality shows have the luxury of editing. You know, most reality shows — Survivor, The Challenge, Amazing Race — they're produced months in advance. They're then edited down and they normally edit out those really unsavory parts, especially if those unsavory parts are coming from your winner. And on Survivor itself, we've had several Survivor contestants, Black contestants, contestants of color come out and say that they witnessed and had racism thrown at them while out there. But we don't know because we don't see it on the edited show. So the mechanism of Big Brother in itself leads it to be able to pull the veil back on what we're seeing in that house.

MF: So most of these contestants are all fans of Big Brother and the six members of the Cookout Alliance — Black contestants — they're fans and they know there's never been a Black winner. Initially just kind of made a pact to not target each other, but it grew into an alliance called the Cookout, and their mission was to ensure that there is a Black winner this season and they got to the final six completely intact. There are only six people left in that house. And now we will have a Black winner for Big Brother 23. And it's because of them and it's because they made a concerted effort to make it their mission to have a Black winner.

MF: So what they've done is they've utilized what's called the "plus one strategy," also known as the "parachute strategy." It's not new, but they have executed it the best. There are six members in the Cookout, and they all had what is called a "plus one." They all pick somebody else in the house who they connected with and that they game-played with, they did strategy with, they made other fake alliances with. That person was basically seen as their duo in the house. So to people who don't know the Cookout, they look at, say, contestant Tiffany and Claire, and they're a duo. So if they ever want to target them — either one of them — you've got to put them both on the block. The Cookout strategy is, yes, we want you to put both of them on the block that way. We had the votes to keep Tiffany safe and vote Claire out. And that is the genius execution of this strategy.

And again, I just want to point out, it's not new, but they really have executed it better than any other alliance in history. They are the only alliance who got every single one of their members to the final six, to just being them left in the house. And they did it, also, I would like to point out, by never being in the same room together until the final eight. They knew that they could never be seen together in a room because they didn't want people to catch on. Everybody who got voted out this alliance was concealed until it was just them. Nobody knew until it was too late. And that really is the amazingness of it. And that's why they're getting so much praise.

MF: A lot of people are complaining that the group is racist, that they are voting people out due to the color of their skin, which just simply isn't true. Just like any other alliance that's ever been in every season, it was based on protecting each other. It's protecting and looking out for each other and they've never excluded anybody, even when they had their plus ones who were basically all non-Black, of course, they always work with them. They always they actually truly cared for their plus ones. We never saw any isolation, any bullying. They never harassed any of the non-Black houseguests, which we've seen in previous seasons. We've really seen in previous seasons people be ganged up and bullied. Again, racial slurs being lobbed at them. And the Cookout is nothing of the sort. This is not about oppressing the non-Black people in the house. It's about empowering themselves. And that is honestly the true difference between this alliance and some of the other alliances that we've seen. 

And to the OG — if they're really OG fans — they would know that modern Big Brother in itself has forced houseguest to create large groups to protect themselves from the twist. And this same thing has happened for multiple seasons. The only difference is this alliance is Black and there's enough of them to finally be able to give them a fair playing field, because there's more than two of them in the house. In some of the older seasons, a lot of Black players made it further because the gameplay was different because you weren't reliant on large alliances. It's been in the last 12 years that, because you have to get into a large alliance, normally, the large alliance is non-Black. All the houseguests who aren't Black, or mostly not houseguests of color because of how they mesh and having the same backgrounds and stuff like that. And because of that, then you'll see your Black houseguests getting voted out because they can't fit into that group. 

So this season was just great because they still didn't come in the house with the majority. There are six of them. They started out with 16 houseguests. There were six Black houseguests and they still had to maneuver their way to get down to being into a majority situation. So that's why it's just amazing to watch. And it really is nothing we've ever seen.

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