Want to know what men reckon makes someone amazing in bed? I know, I know. When I first spotted this Reddit thread, I was hesitant to click. Afraid I'd just seem total knobheads writing "deep throating" and "double back flipping onto my dick" over and over again.But, I was pretty surprised to see their answers were actually legit. Maybe I should have more faith in men? Lol, jk.
Here's what they said...
1. Enthusiasm
"Enthusiasm is key. Although I would add that good oral skills are always a huge bonus. Also being adventurous in your sexuality, and able to comfortably talk about desires and fantasies that make it feel safe for both parties to share some of their wilder curiosities with each other. But the key thing is enthusiasm." [via]
2. Chemistry
"Her chemistry with me, mostly. Best sex I've had has uniformly been with the women who most wanted to fuck my brains out, and who expressed and acted on this desire." [via]
3. Showing desire
"Guys, like women, want to be wanted. When a woman is whispering in my ear, and telling me how much she wants me, how hot she finds me, and she shows it, then that is the best sexy I'm going to have. I'm also going to give myself more to her at the same time." [via]
4. Cuddling afterwards
"Making it clear she is enjoying my body, whether that comes out through spoken, physical (leg locking around my waist, arm-wrapping), or otherwise. Also, if she's a cuddler afterwards that is always amazing!" [via]
5. Being communicative
"Everybody's different. As long as you're getting into it most of the time, that's all it pretty much takes be open. And, talk about what feels good in the moment." [via]
6. Openness
"[Being] open about your sexual desires, and what feels good." [via]
7. Not judging
"Sexual compatibility. I have a few kinks, and like to find a girl who is at least open about exploring, even if we never actually do. It's about feeling comfortable to be me in the bedroom, without fear of judgement. Also, the sexiest thing a woman can wear in bed is confidence." [via]
8. Creativity
"My wife pics up on little clues about my favourite things, and she gets really good at them. She knows I love her ass, so she’ll position a mirror so that while she rides me, I can see every angle. She’s amazing, and creative, and delightfully attentive." [via]
9. Being comfortable
"When a woman is totally comfortable with exploring all aspects of sex and physical gratification, it is an amazing experience. Being able to communicate effectively is important." [via]
