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"If he lays with you for days and he don't touch you, it's not you! He wants a man" Tamar Braxton tells women



"If he lays with you for days and he don

Tamar Braxton has issued a "public service announcement" concerning men's sexuality, while telling women that there's nothing in the world they can do to keep a man who doesn't want to stay.

 

She swore on her "momma" that a number of the men "out here" are gay and nothing a woman does, not the "money, beauty, hair, babies" will keep them.

 

She shared a text photo that read: "The truth is ladies that theses dudes out here really do be gay!! It aint enough money, beauty, hair, babies in the world to kee them!! They want Di**!! Peridt!! It's nothing wrong with you, but they will find EVERY reason in the world to make you not good enough!!

 

"If he lays with you for 3, 4, 10 days and he don't touch you, it's not you!! He want a man!! And that's on my momma."

 

She captioned the post: "Public service announcement!!! Periodt!!! It's time someone says something!!!"

 

"If he lays with you for days and he don

by Linda Ikeji at 11/11/2019 4:45 PM
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Emmanuel Kachi about 4 years ago

Devilish post from a demonshe.. Some men are principled.. And that doesn't guarantee gay... #kachi

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Ucy about 4 years ago

That's her own opinion..doesn't make it true.

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Cheryl (From Glory to Glory) about 4 years ago

Not true... another woman could also be on his mind

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Omalicha about 4 years ago

Imagine the nonsense talk??? Mtcheeew!!!

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Oluwabusayo Joseph about 4 years ago

This kind of comments is inciting rape but it's true imagine me sleeping next to Omalicha and not making a move. Then I am definitely Bisi Alimi.

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Omalicha about 4 years ago

😂Jesus please save me from oluwabusayo. Watin I do you for lib? 😂

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Anonymous about 4 years ago

So men nolonger have self control aby? there are thousands of reason that could make a man not touch you while on same bed with you is all about agreement, self control and understanding. Before my wedding day i was sleeping on same bed with my hubby but we agreed on no sex till the wedding night and we made it so stop talking nonsense not all men are gay.

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Anonymous about 4 years ago

Nonsense talk there are thousand of reasons why a man cant touch you even for months . During my school days i use to have 2 boy friend i use to visit every each weekend i convince them not to have sex with me till marriage and i told them if they love me they should wait and that was it we lay on same bed almost every weekend dick goes up and down but i always pretend not to notice untill onday after months i decided to show mercy so my dear when a guy is into you they will wait aby you want them to rape you?

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alli merry about 4 years ago

its principle, perhaps we should ask real men like Mike

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Juliet Iwuno about 4 years ago

Her 2cents! Mum Jay take note!

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Nkiru MBA about 4 years ago

Don't be fooled by this post, Only the situation of Nigeria can make Nigerian men nt to touch u, their is so much on their mind

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okechukwu nnoduechi about 4 years ago

LOL YOU THINK ALL MEN ARE OKOMBO.... MY DEAR THEIR ARE VERY PRINCIPLED ONES LIKE ME.. BELIEVE IT OR LEAVE IT

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Anonymous about 4 years ago

Who believes this gay thing sef. Demons in flesh

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Anonymous about 4 years ago

You guys should take a chill pill please. Tamar lives in Atlanta. Atlanta is known all over the world as the gay capital of black men. Her post is right considering where she lives. She did not have Nigerian men in mind while writing her post. We have a different outlook to life here because of our culture so no need for all the contrary views. Until you live in Atlanta, Georgia you may never understand how bad it is.

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Anonymous about 4 years ago

Lol, Tamara, your man is SO GAY! Are you blind???

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Anonymous about 4 years ago

Black American loud mouth stupidity on display.

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MikemyghT about 4 years ago

She is right.. body no be firewood..

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Miket Preis about 4 years ago

He might be fucking another girl somewhere, he isn't fucking u doesn't mean he is gay

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SAINT TYNII about 4 years ago

This is a stupid assumption... There are days people don't feel like banging

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Anonymous about 4 years ago

True that cuz of work stress or some sort. If you have been married to so one for long sometimes it’s not about touching and fucking sometimes it’s about enjoying the company in btw kiss and cuddle.

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Okpara about 4 years ago

Its almost impossible to lay with a woman 3days and not touch her!

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Anonymous about 4 years ago

@okpara ur not correct, it's easier for a girl to be gay than for a guy. No matter how beautiful a woman looks a man can stay days, weeks,months or even years with out touching her.it has nothing to do with gay or not. As a man some times you like a girl so much or even love her but ur not sexual attracted to her, when ever she comes close to you for something intimate you get instant headache this happens especially if you have had sex with her before, you just like to be around her but with out having sex, some men feel same way towards their wife, he may not even be cheating. As for me if I'm with such a girl I can stay months with out having to touch her and I will not even cheat as long as I like her and her company. Women have wrong impression about men and sex. Sex is fun for men and if we dont feel it, we won't do it. A man may have 3 wives, but he keeps having sex with just one,why do you think so? It's not all pussycat that is worth fucking a second time or third.

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Anonymous about 4 years ago

Loud it Nna

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Anonymous about 4 years ago

You can’t help loving Tamar! She is so right. Now I realize that was my ex-H. After he kicked me out, a guy moved in with him. I thought maybe it was just a friend he was helping with accommodation, but now I realize... Tamar is so right!!!

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Anonymous about 4 years ago

Bitter divorcee, you are unattractive and obviously have the capacity to turn any womanizer gay.

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Anonymous about 4 years ago

I guess her relationship is on the rocks now. She has told to motivational speaker. Lack of dick can do that to a woman.

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Ademola Adunola about 4 years ago

Lolz....me oooo am not gay and I can lay beside a lady for couple of days without touching or sexing her shikena👌

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Akuoma Akuego about 4 years ago

What if he has erectile dysfunction?

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Anonymous about 4 years ago

Very flawed!!! 👎🏽👎🏽

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muyiwa olaniyan about 4 years ago

Very unscientific and partly a rush to conclusion. The following may be going on: 1. An unresolved conflict 2. If in marraige, sometimes reality of spouses poor character especially arrogance, poor culinary etc. could reduce frequency of sex 3. The heart has been stolen by another, he may already be getting it elsewhere 4. Battered ego of the man.... 5. And for sure Tamar's view is also a possibility. 6. Untreated infections, especially when it becomes noticeable...fishy smell; a huge turn off. There is need for more information to narrow the options and really pick a factual conclusion.

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Anonymous about 4 years ago

Na wa, if he makes a move to fuck you, wahala, if he does not make a move to fuck you, wahala. Which kain wahala be this sef?! Women are a confused lot.

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Anonymous about 4 years ago

Tell them Tamar ! Tell them! Yesssss

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Chidi Uba about 4 years ago

Odikwa egwu

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Anonymous about 4 years ago

What do we women really want? Na wa oh for this women. You can’t just understand them.

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dannyboboh about 4 years ago

you are wrong on this

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Anonymous about 4 years ago

She's saying the truth

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Anonymous about 4 years ago

I think so too. We are all rushing to comment like anyone is a saint. If a guy is into you and you're dating, no way he wouldn't want to cuddle or kiss, doesn't have to be sex. Her post never specifically mention sex. No matter how Christian you both are, it's better to avoid sleeping on same bed before marriage cuz no one is Jesus and there's a limit to self control. I'm absolutely in agreement with the post. And the trend on comments here shows me 99% on here either don't think deep before commenting or are just outright hypocrites because when we read twitter stories of babes saying they slept over in friends house and he sexually assaulted, it's same us that say what was she expecting sleeping over...

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Anonymous about 4 years ago

No he is a born again.

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Anonymous about 4 years ago

Then he should get a separate room not share a bed with her and do nothing for days unend!!!

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Ahzmond about 4 years ago

Touch her and she might file a sexual harassment charge against you. Sometimes one needs to approach with caution.

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Anonymous about 4 years ago

Looking at her I must say, ITS YOU!

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Vay Gun about 4 years ago

Women are the most confused creature on earth. Minding his business is to avoid #METOO Drama...it has nothing to do with Gay

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Anonymous about 4 years ago

Illiterate. Cant even write good English. Who told you that? If a man is not happy, he may not want s.x. If a man's mother is sick or his father is dead, he may not want sex. There are a thousand reason a man may not want to have s.x. Why are African American women so obsessed about s.x?

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Anonymous about 4 years ago

I lay without touching to prove a point especially when she codedly informed me of some financial problem. What better way to avoid expenses?

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GIF about 4 years ago

Akata odè maybe hes just not that into you....he probably got another girl on his mind 9 times out of 10....well she lives in ATLANTA so i no blame am. Na wetin her microscopic brain dey see.

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Alice Tony about 4 years ago

She is so right!! I have a friend that recently got divorced. Her husband refused touching her for days even if she offered herself to him,the dude will show no interest still and finally it turns out he is gay and sleeping with his best man at their wedding!! So Tamar you r so right! Is either he is gay, he is into some other woman, maybe have erectile dysfunction or he doesn't enjoy sex with his girlfriend period.

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Anonymous about 4 years ago

She thinks she’s special, a meat to every man..She’s damn wrong. Reason why polygamy is good. You can’t eat Egusi soup everyday, you will definitely get tired of it. Some men are like that and you can’t change them. And they are not GaY..

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Anonymous about 4 years ago

Today is friday

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Ben Bay about 4 years ago

see philistinism at it's peak! so no self disciplined man exists at all niyen ohh?!

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SNIPER about 4 years ago

Better be called gay than rapist.These days the standard for establishing rape has been so lowered that even if a woman opens her legs,you enter ,the moment she says stop and you refuse,she can claim rape.Men,we're in trouble.

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Truth about 4 years ago

Rubbbisssh talk

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Ben about 4 years ago

You said your opinion, what if she smells like Tacha? 😳can I still touch her?

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Star about 4 years ago

She is so right a lot of guys are angry on this blog . However, so many women have come across hay guys even married them. This is not erectile desfunction. So many of them hide under disorder or Illness rather than come out of the closet.

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Seun A about 4 years ago

When ladies start making a post like this. hmmm. I hope her relationship with the Naija guy is still intact. They both seem silent since their return to America from Nigeria.

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Anonymous about 4 years ago

Now he goes ahead you shout rape. Devilish post.

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Kevin about 4 years ago

If you touch problem if don't touch problem (is there any thing man can do for it to be ok) womans world

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