How to Tame a Feral Cat

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Feral cats have had little to no interaction with humans. Many feral cats are born in the wild, and others have been abandoned by their owners or have become lost. Regardless of their origins, feral cats are generally fearful of human interaction, and will more likely scratch or bite you than snuggle up in your lap (at least at first).^{[1]
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Bringing a Feral Cat into Your Home

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Prepare a room for the feral cat. The feral cat should remain in an enclosed area until she becomes more comfortable with you and her new environment.^{[3]
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- Make sure the room’s windows and doors are closed to prevent her from escaping. Also, check the room for any holes or cracks where she could manage to get through.^{[7]
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- If there are shelves in the room, remove anything that she could knock over.^{[8]
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- Create hiding places in the room (e.g., upside-down cardboard boxes with holes cut out).^{[9]
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- For at least the first few days, use organic potting soil as litter—the feral cat will be much familiar with this than regular kitty litter.^{[10]
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- Light the room with a nightlight, rather than turning on the overhead light. The darkness will help the feral cat feel more secure in her new environment.^{[11]
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- To get her accustomed to human scents, place some old pieces of clothing (e.g., socks, sweatshirts) in the room.
- The feral cat will need at least a few hours to allow her to settle in.^{[12]
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Place a pet carrier in the room with the trap. You will need to take the feral cat to the veterinarian to receive some much-needed veterinary care (e.g., vaccinations, dewormings, FeLV and FIV testing).^{[13]
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- Leave the carrier door open and place some blankets and treats in the carrier to make it more comfortable for her.
- Place a towel over the trap and carrier to create another safe hiding place.
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Catch the feral cat. Don’t be surprised if the feral cat bolts if you try to get near her.^{[15]
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- To entice her into the trap, place some tasty morsels of the food at the back of the trap.
- She may be frightened at the sound of the door closing when she steps on the panel. However, she will not be injured.^{[17]
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- Live humane traps are available online. Consider contacting your local animal shelter or animal control to inquire about borrowing a trap.^{[18]
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- Place some comfortable bedding (towels or blankets) in the trap.
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Feed the feral cat outdoors. Taming a feral cat should be done inside your home. However, the feral cat’s fear of human interaction presents a problem with bringing her into your home.^{[19]
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- Feed her at the same time each day.
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Handling a Feral Cat

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Spend time with the feral cat without handling her. After the feral cat has had some time to settle in, begin to interact with her to start getting her accustomed to human interaction. To prevent scratches and bites, wear long sleeves, pants, gloves, and shoes when you enter the room.^{[21]
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- Plan to spend time with her at about the same time every day—having a routine will help her settle into your home.^{[23]
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- Knock before you open the door, and enter slowly.^{[24]
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- Talk to her quietly as you tend to her needs (e.g., cleaning her litter box, replacing her food and water.
- Do not stare or make eye contact with the feral cat—she could perceive this as aggression. Instead, avert your eyes and lower your head.
- As she becomes more comfortable with you, sit with her for about an hour each in the mornings and evenings. Other than talking to her, you can read a book or work quietly on your laptop.^{[25]
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- Do not try to handle her at the beginning. Let her go at her own pace.^{[27]
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Play with the feral cat. Playing with the feral cat will help her continue to get more comfortable with you before you handle her. Purchase some lightweight cat toys from your local pet store and let her play with those while you are in the room with her. You can also make a homemade ‘kitty tease toy’: attach a small piece of cloth to a string, and attach the string to a small stick.
- Do not let her play with the tease toy alone. She could swallow the string, which could lead to intestinal obstruction that would require extensive veterinary care.
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Observe the feral cat’s ‘readiness’ body language. Handling a feral cat can be fraught with danger—she may quickly put up her defenses and attack you out of fear. Observing her body language will let you know if she is comfortable with moving to the next level of human interaction. Body language that indicates she is not ready include making themselves small, hissing at you, and pulling back their ears and whiskers.^{[28]
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- She may also hiss at you if she does not want you to handle her.
- If she seems relatively calm when you around her, that is a good clue that she may be ready to be handled.
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Acclimate the feral cat to your hand. Still wary of more human interaction, the feral cat will need time to adjust to your hand. To begin, place your hand flat on the floor, palm side down.^{[29]
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- Resist the temptation to pet her. Her explorations of you are her way of testing you to see if you are a threat.^{[31]
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- Keep your hand a small distance away from her at first. As she becomes more comfortable with your hand, move it and your body closer to her.^{[32]
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- You must allow her to initiate the contact. She may attack if you make the first move.
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Pet the feral cat. Petting the feral cat may feel like a moment of truth—will she welcome you or attack you? Set a toy near your hand and place your hand flat on the floor. When she approaches, sniffs, and nudges your hand, take this as your cue to slowly lift your hand and hold it at her eye level.^{[33]
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- Briefly leave your hand at her eye level, then start petting her.^{[34]
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- Pay attention to her body language—tensed muscles, a swishing tail, dilated pupils, and flattened ears are all signals that you should stop petting her and give her some space.^{[35]
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- Keep the first petting session brief. It is best to stop petting her before she lets you know she’s had enough.^{[36]
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Pick up the feral cat. If you have a feral kitten, you can try picking her up and setting her in your lap when she becomes more comfortable with you petting her. Keeping in mind that she is still a wild animal, slowly and gently wrap her up with a towel (leaving room to scruff her) to prevent you from getting scratched or bitten.
- Turn her body such that her head is facing away from you. Scruff her by firmly gripping the skin at the base of her neck. Grasp the skin as close to her ears as possible, making sure not to grasp too tightly.^{[37]
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- Gently lift the her up in the air and set her gently in your lap. If she will let you, pet her and talk to her in a soothing voice.
- Although kittens are scruffed by their mothers, do not be surprised if the feral kitten does not like being scruffed by you. Read her body signals to determine if she likes or dislikes being scruffed.
- Never reach for a feral cat or kitten from its front.
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Groom the feral cat. Grooming the feral cat not only gets her more comfortable with human interaction and handling, but also helps you keep her skin and coat healthy. Brush her with a soft-bristled pet brush. You can also comb her with a flea comb to remove fleas.
- Combs and brushes are available at your local pet store.
- Flea infestations in feral kittens can be very dangerous, leading to potentially fatal anemia. In addition to combing her with a flea comb, she will need to take a flea preventative (available through your veterinarian).
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Determining if You Can Tame a Feral Cat

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Assess how feral the cat is. Feral cats are either totally feral (no human contact or only negative human contact), semi-feral (some positive human contact), or converted feral (abandoned house cat that becomes semi-feral). Totally feral cats will be the most difficult to tame and socialize, and converted feral cats will be the easiest.^{[38]
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- Semi-feral cats look to humans to feed them, but do not seek further human interaction. This minimal level of human interaction teaches them important social cues of the human world.^{[39]
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- Semi-feral cats are sometimes referred to as ‘community cats.’^{[40]
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Identify the feral cat’s approximate age. Having a rough estimate of the feral cat’s age can let you know how easy or difficult it may be to tame her. Feral kittens, particularly those younger than 10 to 12 weeks old, are usually easily tamable. Older feral cats who have been feral for a long time will be most difficult to tame, if you can tame them at all.^{[41]
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- Feral kittens should not be removed from their mothers until they are ready to be weaned, at approximately 6-8 weeks of age. Experts widely agree that for kittens with a domesticated mother, 13 weeks is the appropriate time for separation. For feral mothers, the kittens should ideally be separated from mum at 6-8 weeks - if they stay longer with a feral mum, they will be taught feral behaviors and will take longer to tame. The litter should be kept together for at least a few weeks so the kittens can learn from each other.^{[42]
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- If you see a feral kitten with his mother, trap the mother and kitten at the same time. Keep them together inside your home until the kitten is ready to be weened, usually about 6-8 weeks. Contact the local animal rescue to have the mother spayed and returned to her colony.
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Determine your ability to tame a feral cat. Taming a feral cat is difficult and comes with no guarantee that the taming will be successful. In addition to being a challenge, taming a feral cat can take a lot of time: feral kittens could be tamed in as little as two to six weeks, but it could be a year or more before an adult feral cat is tamed.
- Acclimating a feral cat to your home and socializing her could require several hours of your time per day, potentially for months on end. Be honest with yourself if you can handle this level of daily commitment.
- Paying for the feral cat’s veterinary care will likely be expensive. Determine if you are in a financial position to pay for the feral cat’s care.
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How do you get a feral cat to trust you once they're inside?

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Francine Miller is an Applied Animal Behavior Counselor and Founder of Call Ms Behaving, a behavior counseling service for dogs and cats in San Diego, California. With over 16 years of experience, Francine specializes in treating behavior problems such as aggression, separation anxiety, phobias, fear reactions, destructiveness, urine marking, and compulsive behaviors. She uses a behavioral management and modification plan that is positive reinforcement only. She holds a Diploma in Canine Behavior Counseling from the American College of Applied Science (ACAS). Francine has completed all coursework toward an MS in Applied Animal Behavior Science and Family Counseling for Companion Animals from the American College of Applied Science (ACAS). She is a certified Associate of the International Association of Animal Behavior Consultants (IAABC) and a member of the Pet Professional Guild.

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You'll need to be patient and move at the cat's pace. I would start by putting them in a single room with everything they need, including toys, food, water, and a litter box. Learn to read the cat's body language, and only attempt to approach them when they're relaxed. If you respect the cat and their space, they'll quickly learn that you're a friend and not an enemy.

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A feral cat I feed is pregnant. What kind of shelter can I make for her to have her kittens?

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It's likely she will chose her own shelter but by offering a safe option she may decide to use it. Try a plastic crate laid on its side and if you can, improvise protection at the front so she feels protected. Locate the crate in a quiet corner away from other animals and traffic, perhaps concealed behind trees or bushes. Also, try to face the entrance out of the wind and rain so that it doesn't blow in. Avoid using newspaper or towels as bedding, as these easily become saturated if water does get in. A deep bed of good quality straw is warm and provides some drainage if the weather gets in. If you can, also provide a separate box for food and water, placed close by. This allows you to add more food but without disturbing the nest. Best of luck to you and your feral fur friend.

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A feral cat comes into the house to eat as long as I leave door open for escape. Now he's older and he has started to spray. How do I discourage this? We expect he will be trapped & neutered within a week or two.

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It is an unfortunate fact the entire male cats will spray urine in order to mark their territory. It's a back-handed compliment I'm afraid, as he obviously sees your home as worth marking as his. Neutering will help but you also need to clean away any lingering odor (using an ammonia-free cleaning product) so that he is not drawn back to the same spot to mark it again.

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Do not be discouraged if you were not able to tame a feral cat. Not all feral cats can be tamed to live with people.^{[43]
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A fully tamed feral cat may prefer to keep to herself. Give her as much space from you as she desires.^{[44]
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You should attempt to tame a feral cat only if you plan to keep her.

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Feral cats are wild animals. You can easily get scratched or bitten if you are not cautious about your interactions with a feral cat. Consult with your veterinarian or local animal control if you are uncomfortable with trapping and handling a feral cat.

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Feral cats are susceptible to many conditions, such as exposure to the elements (e.g., wind, rain), infections, and attacks from other animals. Feral kitten mortality rates reach nearly 50%.^{[45]
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