Bipolar Disorder & Why Self-Care Matters

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With bipolar treatment, the importance of self-care cannot be understated. Curating my own self-care plan—and putting it into action—helps me manage this chronic, brain-based condition.

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Hello, this is Melody Moezzi with bp Magazine’s bphope vlog, and today I’m talking about self-care—what it is, what it isn’t, and how it can help you.

What Is Self-Care, Anyway?

Self-care is basically what it sounds like: care for oneself. It is anything you do to keep yourself well, whether that’s emotionally, psychologically, spiritually, physically, professionally—whatever you do in your life that helps keep you well. It’s incredibly important for everybody, but when you have a chronic condition like bipolar disorder, it becomes all the more important. What I recommend is having a self-care plan.

Self-Care Is NOT Selfish.

It’s really important to note up front that this is not a “Western” concept. Many times, please have said to me, dismissively, “Oh, self-care, that’s just an American thing, and it’s actually selfish!” No, it’s not “just an American thing”—and even if it were, there are a lot of great American things, so that’s fine.

Keeping oneself well is entrenched in a lot of different cultures in terms of how we care for ourselves—our bodies, our minds, and our souls. So, prayer, for example, is a practice that a lot of people have used, throughout history, to look after themselves. Meditation is also something that, throughout history, a lot of people have used, and it has helped them. Personally, meditation is on my self-care plan/list.

Creating a Self-Care Plan or List

There are some self-care practices that are going to be on your list but aren’t going to be on someone else’s.

For example, I love driving. It calms me down; it’s how I think. But a good amount of people don’t like driving, and some even have panic attacks while they’re driving—so taking a drive would not be on their list.

Also, I love nature documentaries. And I love David Attenborough’s voice, something about the way he speaks just calms me down. There are certain voices like that. Garrison Keillor is another one of those, for me. Also on my self-care list are listening to music, reading, and sewing.

These strategies work for me. So my self-care plan has a long list of activities. But what works for one person may not work for the next, so each plan or list is going to be different for everyone.

Let’s Make a List of Self-Care Strategies Together!

Heres what I’m thinking: We can all put our lists together in the comments section below to come up with a giant, really big list that hopefully will be useful to a lot of other people.

So, add a comment with whatever self-care strategies you feel comfortable sharing, and we’ll put that list together and post it at some point.


That’s all I’ve got for now. Until next time, take care. I’m out!


Learn more:
Bipolar & Sugar—How We Unintentionally Sabotage Our Stability
Bipolar Disorder, Creativity, & Flights of Ideas


CREDITS: All A/V (videography, audio, etc.) courtesy of Matthew Lenard.


Originally posted November 2, 2016

About the author
Melody Moezzi, an award-winning author and visiting associate professor of creative writing at the University of North Carolina–Wilmington, is also an activist, attorney, and keynote speaker. Her most recent book, The Rumi Prescription: How an Ancient Mystic Poet Changed My Modern Manic Life, joins her earlier works: the critically acclaimed Haldol and Hyacinths and War on Error, which earned her a Georgia Author of the Year Award and a Gustavus Myers Center for the Study of Bigotry and Human Rights Honorable Mention. In addition to her Flight of Ideas column for bp Magazine, Moezzi’s writing has appeared in many outlets, including Ms. magazine, the New York Times, the Washington Post, NBC News, the Guardian, HuffPost, Al Arabiya, and the Yale Journal for Humanities in Medicine. She has also appeared on numerous radio and television programs, including CNN, BBC, NPR, PBS, PRI, and more. Moezzi is a graduate of Wesleyan University, the Emory University School of Law, and the Emory University Rollins School of Public Health. She divides her time between Cambridge, MA, and Wilmington, NC, with her husband, Matthew, and their ungrateful cats, Keshmesh and Nazanin. For more information, please visit melodymoezzi.com and follow her on Twitter, Instagram, and Facebook.
72 Comments
  1. At 58 (diagnosed at 19). I learned to sculpt in stone. It has changed my uneven stability for the better.

  2. I like spending time outside with nature and spending time with God.

  3. I do many of the things for self care that you mentioned however you and the comments section have expanded my thoughts on many new ideas. I would like to get on a routine and have a written plan. Thank you for this video.

  4. I do glass art
    I do a exercise class
    Play pickleball
    Bible journaling.
    Watch a lifetime movie

  5. Bring on the Cognitive Therapy in my thinking and self talk. Keep a simple journal (which also helps to give a look at where my moods are headed), note when spending money gets out of hand, in other words try and see the BP moods coming on. If I am in a manic or depressed mood, I too read Rumi! For me too, I try to focus on studying Qabbala. These wisdom readings calm me and often I can believe myself when I say “This to shall pass.”. Outdoor activities can frighten me if I am falling in to the BP frame of mind. It’s just too huge out there.

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