shamelesslymkp.tumblr.com
OH MY GOD THIS IS AMAZINGI KNOW
the whole THING is amazing and i am super excited to have finally stopped my dithering and bought my ticket (full monty say whaaaaaaaaaaat) even though i am super scared of…
You might as well sign up to be a kidnapper. Even if you don’t match anybody, you still get to look at the sexy forms and don’t really lose anything. That was basically my rationale.
That’s true! I feel kind of bad doing so tho because I’d be so useless for people probably and even if i was a match for someone i might well not be able to do it when the time came (altho i guess at least the kidnappERs know ahead of time when they’re going to do it, which. more than anything else, that’s why i don’t know if i could ever be a kidnappee. there’s a really good chance i’d end up having a meltdown before anything happened just because i wasn’t expecting it.)
I can’t totally speak to the surprise part; I got kidnapped on like the first full day, before I really ever let my guard down. Soft takedown might help? Or at least definitely let them no to be sensitive and/or make sure that somebody you trust would be involved. I’m sure RS would love to be part of yours. :)
you know what would be an awesome kidnapping? like, a joint-kidnapping, where one person is kidnapped and is the toy and the other person is kidnapped and made to play with the toy.
uh. yeah. my kinks, let me show you them?I actually put something a little like that on my kidnapper form. Like I could be in a team with a big who was showing me how to play with the toy or making me do it, or giving it to me as a present. I hope I get to.
perfect gif is perfect. xD
i did fill out a kidnapper form! i don’t know if they’ll be able to use me and if i’d be able to actually follow through even if they did match me (i made sure to say to not make me be important because NO i do not want to screw up someone’s scene because i overestimated my capabilities).
i think kidnapping for me is something that will have to stay a fantasy, because honestly even the thought of surprise!bondage and cuddles makes me suspicious of an imminent meltdown.
i just really really r e a l l y do not deal well with surprise changes in my activities. (says the person who once had a complete meltdown in elementary school when they moved the seats for testing. :P )
(via persephonesidekick)