In search for the keys to enduring friendships, a physicist and sociologist from Notre Dame examined more than 8 million phone calls between 2 million people.
Their answer, as the science news site PhysOrg admits, may not surprise you: “the leading cause of persistent relationships is reciprocity — returning a friend’s call.” Further, they said friends ’til the end tend to touch base at least once every 15 days.
Scientists also argued a less obvious point, saying that social butterflies “are not trading quality for quantity.” They simply have more “best friends forever” (B.F.F.’s) than their more introverted friends.
They may also have better long distance plans, though Skype helped overcome that obstacle on Monday. The Internet-based telephone service made its name by providing a cheaper alternative to calling landlines, but it also capped the amount of minutes its customers could use no matter how much they paid. Now, $9.95 per month can buy unlimited calls between Skype and landlines in 34 countries.
If that prospective B.F.F. in Malaysia, Guam or Norway still manages to slip away over the years, blame each other, not that phone line in between.
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