How to Flirt With a Boy when You Are 13 or 14

Reviewed by John Keegan

Last Updated: April 8, 2024

Ever wondered, as a 13 or 14-year-old, what it would be like if you flipped your hair in front of the school football team? Or maybe you dream of winking at that new boy in your class? This article will show you how to do these things, and others, in such a way as to playfully demonstrate your sexual attraction to any boy perfectly!

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Learn how to relax around guys. Not many people like an uptight person who will adjust her makeup and hair every five seconds. The point is to not be so girly, but don't be one of the guys either. You will not be able to flirt unless you can find the perfect balance between a friend and someone who is clearly crushing on him.
Practice flirting with people you don't know and ones that you most likely will never see again. The mall would be the perfect place for this. Flirtatious behavior includes winking, making eye contact, smiling, and trying to make them laugh.

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When you're walking with him or standing next time say you're cold and ask him for a hug or ask if he has a jacket or sweatshirt, but don't give it back that day then the next day when you see him tell him you're sorry and smile at him.
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Flirt with your crush subtly. Preferably one that you are attracted to. Don't be annoying or pushy when you flirt. Leave him wanting more than just your flirting! Here are a few simple ways to flirt with him:
- Glance up at him until your eyes meet, then smile at him.
- Get him a soda, beverage, or candy to show you care about him.
- Make jokes and try to make him laugh--be funny!
- Smile and make eye contact with him.
- Place your hand on his knee or 'accidentally' brush up against him.
- With a guy who's close to you, sign notes to him with "Love," or "XOXO," for example, end a letter to him with "Love, Sam."
- Make friends with his friends and be sure you leave a good impression on them too! That way they will talk to the guy you like about you.

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If you are a bit awkward, then remember the guy you like is just your friend first or at least knows you're fun to be around.

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Appearance doesn't mean you have to look perfect! The right guys will not care if your hair got all wet just because of the rain and won't care if you have a couple of zits on your nose when you are just flirting.

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Flirt with somebody who likes you for you, not somebody you're not.

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Warnings

Some guys are very flattered when you show you are sexually attracted to them in as playful way, but they may attempt to take advantage of the situation. If you don't want to have sex with someone, it's wise to not show you are sexually attracted to them, even in a very fun and playful way. It's much better to chat with boys your own age, go on dates and have fun doing age appropriate things with your friends, whether you have a bit if a crush on them or not.

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